Isn't it friendship first, then courtship, during the friendship period, getting to know each other, formulates as to whethera relationship could be formed. I believe that if you want a real relationship with a Thai woman the same rules apply for building a relationship as anywhere.
Without effective communication, how do you know you anything about each other? Add on top of that a understanding of each others cultural differences and a willingness to compromise when necessary.
Many Western women are outspoken and blunt, and Thai culture, as a general rule, is not this way.
They don't like to be confronted and don't like to confront other people.
If you show a woman you make an effort to look good, then that shows her you’ll make an effort in the relationship. Make sure you’re always courteous and polite on your date, it’s the little things that make the biggest difference.