It gave them a question to ask you, making their life incredibly easy. Welcome to the, "I'm the same as every other woman on this dating site" club.
The more bait you leave, the more likely men will message you without skipping to the next profile. If you want to stand out from the crowd, reveal your personality in a unique way.
It subconsciously creates the image of a woman who has not had the best of luck with men in the past.
By changing this statement to, "the perfect man for me is smart, fun and handsome," the perception completely changes.
When you do it you have to be in it and not distracted by so many things. He doesn’t have to work in a creative job but it would be great if he has a creative outlet. He doesn’t have to be the most attractive guy but if he’s witty, I’m in. He’s the kind of guy I can take to a party and know that he can handle himself.
It was kind of funny because last week my instructor told me that I really let go and went with the music rather than trying to control myself. It has to do with me control, judgment, all the shoulds and just accept what is in the moment. Probably the same thing in relationships.” – Woman mid 30’s “My ideal partner doesn’t sweat the small stuff. It’s important that he’s loyal, secure within himself and reliable—I want a guy I can count on. But every now and then he’ll look at me across the room and know exactly what I’m thinking.” – Woman early 50’s “On the first date my magical fairy godmother would appear and dress me in a beautiful ball gown compete with glass slippers and a rhinestone tiara.
And even though I will probably give you hell sometimes, I hope you won’t want to change me. You’ll have to find out where it is.” – Woman early 20’s “I am generous and kind, and feel that I could offer the right woman an extraordinary life. I came to this country with nothing, no connections, nothing, and became the general manager of a leading start-up in the Silicon Valley.